HELLO. Thank you! Gawd, I can't believe how people persist in constructing their fucking sentences this way. (& no, this is not a grammar post.) Arnold deserves some kind of medal for saintly patience; he actually takes the time to spell out the obvious, in an effort to enlighten any unconscious dolts who may happen upon his very clear explanation.
Sorry if I sound insufferably superior. It's the exasperation talking. By the way, if "gay men respond in the same way as women," does that mean that all women respond the same? Including lesbians & bi women? I guess so. Feh!